Is LOVE really enough???

sometimes in life u r faced with a questions that threaten to tear u down n force
u to re-evaluate everything.
The question plaguing me at the moment is "Is Love really enough???"
if u have ever cared about anyone in your life u ll know what i m talking about.

(dont think i have gone all soft on u because i have not its just that even macho
a**holes like me need to think from time to time :)

Coming back to my point, if u love a girl and i mean love her like u would take a
bullet for her, run into blazing fire for her,give up heaven and burn in hell for
all eternity just to spend an extra moment with her (I think u get my point)
and she loves u back the same way

(at least u like to think so because when it comes to girls i guess u can never
be too sure.Call me commitment phobic all u want but its true both the phobia
and the stuff about girls)

so is love then really enough? What if she dosent understand u at all???
What do u do when on one hand u love her very much and on the other she is
driving u crazy. In such a situation u know that u cant stand being without her
but u also know that u cannot stand being with her.So what do u do????

Its not like u are tryin to explain to her the fundamentals of rocket science!
all u are askin for is a patient hearing with a willingness to understand.


now some of u reading this may say stuff like:
"Rocket science is easy but love is hard"

or

"Love is the greatest human mystery"

or

"Love conquers all"


all i have to say to such folks is "stop bullshittin urself"

what most people fail to understand is that "SORRY" is not the end of all troubles
but in a vast majority of the cases it is just the beginning.


so WHAT I WANT GIRLS TO UNDERSTAND (n boys too but most guys
already do so m not mentioning specifically)

is when to say sorry.

-dont be sorry u had a fight.
-dont use sorry as a avoidance tactic(Although there are exceptions to this rule)
-just to avoid an on coming fight
trust me its better to fight n get things sorted than leave problems unattended
bec if problems are unattended sooner or later they will come back to haunt u.

in short DONT SAY SORRY JUST FOR THE SAKE OF IT bec u may think we
are dum but we know when u dont mean it.


so i suggest u say sorry only when u know what u have done wrong
i dunno y girls NEVER ask guys why they r mad its not like we like fightin or
that we love stayin mad n if asked all guys do have a proper explanation.

say sorry only when u are convinced and have realized what went wrong.

and most imp:: dont go on an egoistic journey leave it upto ur guy he has pleny
of it and plenty of experience goin on ego trips also



WHAT I WANT BOYS to understand:

unlike girls boys always know what they have done wrong and what
they should be sorry for but still they never say sorry

my advice:

if u ve done it n got caught(should have been more sensible)

or

hurt the one u love

tell her u r sorry (try it its easy to pronounce)

(except if u loved her ur whole life n cared for her n she hurt u for life by
sayin stuff that cant be forgiven bec only u know how bad u r hurtin n if
she threw a tantrum in public(second time right outside ur home) n has
no consideration for u or ur dreams or ur feelings or ur broken heart n is
really proud of all the above facts n is not even sorry she hurt u but is sorry
jst for the sake of it not for the tantrum,not for hurtin u but just to get the
fight over.....hurts dosent it to know that she really dosent understand)


[the above situation is just hypothetical i mean no1 can be that mean can
they i think i went a little too far in my imagination no1 in real life can be
that cruel]

So in conclusion i feel that for any relationship to be wholesome and satisfying
u need understandin as much as u need love.

just like it dosent matter how great u understand each other if u dont love each
other

no matter how much u love each other if u arent willing to undestand ur
relationship is never going to work.(sad but true)


its all free advice take it or leave it ur choice

nd if u r one of the lucky one's n have sum1 special to spend this valentines
with sum1 to tell u that u r loved...........lemme tell u i envy u

Well at least u dont have to spend Valentines like me with two ladies
miss Whiskey and madam Vodka

bye 4 now


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